Politics

Miss Cheery--: says:
dunno if i just did a wrong thing
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Miss Cheery--: says:
sigh
Miss Cheery--: says:
in this world, everyone wants to lead, to perform
Miss Cheery--: says:
i just volunteer to give the leadership position of a win win project to someone
Miss Cheery--: says:
am i dumb
.©hËe ©hÏû. ~ says:
y??????
Miss Cheery--: says:
because i give up the chance to perform
.©hËe ©hÏû. ~ says:
i'm asked y did u give up a win win project to some1?
Miss Cheery--: says:
all the pple of my age are leading a project of similar nature
Miss Cheery--: says:
i give up mine for noble reasons
Miss Cheery--: says:
i want certain team members in my group
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initially i have A in my team
Miss Cheery--: says:
then when A's manager found out that I leading, she pulled out A and sub with B
Miss Cheery--: says:
I need A in my team because she is ultimately the person I need to work with
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B is very reactive and he drags the team down
Miss Cheery--: says:
just what i feel
Miss Cheery--: says:
the project is more of A/B department's responsibilty I just felt that their manager tried to wash hands by putting in B instead of A
Miss Cheery--: says:
they want us to help them do all the work
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so I said, let A be the leader to reverse the situation
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of course I could have still driven the project and take it as a challenge
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I despise the manager
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too much office politics
Miss Cheery--: says:
she is so silly and she even thinks that my dept wants to take all the credit by being the leader
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thus she wants to withdraw from it
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I think being the leader matters
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all the efforts will go to the leader after the closure of project
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so i think im dumb
Miss Cheery--: says:
aiya dun care l
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so now A's the leader?
Miss Cheery--: says:
I told her to be the leader
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actually we are school mates
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so it really doesnt matter
Miss Cheery--: says:
but on the other hand, it will matter that everyone is achieving but im not
.©hËe ©hÏû. ~ says:
how many ppl in this project team? if she's the type who will be nice and indicate who did wat.. then it's okiez as in.. eventually.. the create goes to her.. but some of credite goes to u..
Miss Cheery--: says:
but once the proj is done, no one cares who does what
Miss Cheery--: says:
they only want to know how much is saved and what are the results
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orh.. i see
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sorrie. . . i dnno tat
Miss Cheery--: says:
pple r busy
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in tat case.. they will only be interested in the leader
Miss Cheery--: says:
that's why it is v impt to her to be the leader
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yah..
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the credit goes to the leader
Miss Cheery--: says:
so i feel im dumb
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but this is the only way to get things work more efficiently
Miss Cheery--: says:
i am for efficiency
.©hËe ©hÏû. ~ says:
true. . . will there b this sort of projects in the future?
Miss Cheery--: says:
it all depends
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this project is good as everyone is ready for it
Miss Cheery--: says:
no need to persuade
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and data is easily obtainable
Miss Cheery--: says:
no need to spend time to collect it
.©hËe ©hÏû. ~ says:
hmm.. but in a sense.. u have already let ur fren b the leader..
.©hËe ©hÏû. ~ says:
so the way to look at it is fro mthe point how u can gain from this project
Miss Cheery--: says:
how to
Miss Cheery--: says:
sigh
.©hËe ©hÏû. ~ says:
how many ppl in this project? able to co-champion this project?
Miss Cheery--: says:
no co-champion
Miss Cheery--: says:
4 pple in the team including leader
.©hËe ©hÏû. ~ says:
very small team? or is this the stnadard size?
Miss Cheery--: says:
depends l
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cos there is a massive effort to involve everyone is diff proj
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so everyone is spread thin to do projects
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i agree..
Miss Cheery--: says:
sigh
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is it v dumb of me
.©hËe ©hÏû. ~ says:
hmm.. a bit.. but it does make ur life and project easier
Miss Cheery--: says:
what shd be the right way to do it
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how impressive is this project?
Miss Cheery--: says:
quite if something can be done
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cos no one did it despite so many years
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hmm..
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do u intend to stay in this company for long?
Miss Cheery--: says:
dun think so
.©hËe ©hÏû. ~ says:
hmm.. in tat case.. think of it as u'll b gaining from this experience.. and adding to ur CV
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of cuz.. the wording between leading a project which [fill in the blanks] and participate in a project which [fill in the blanks] is quite different.. but afterall.. the wording is up to u to phrase
Miss Cheery--: says:
this is what happens when i write resume in NUS
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yah.. so mainly is to make sure tat u gain from this experience..
Miss Cheery--: says:
i will definitely gain
Miss Cheery--: says:
from visiting the suppliers
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i see.. tat will b great...
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dun worry and think too much...
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sometimes i do tat also.. but it is usually of no use.. we must learn to move forward..
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sometimes i am always learning
Miss Cheery--: says:
ya i know
Miss Cheery--: says:
in fact when i made the decision, i am pretty much decided
Miss Cheery--: says:
just that i need a second honest opinion
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after i made a decision.. i usually ask my self..could i have done in any other better way...
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hiaz.. life is just all abt decision making